Tales Thoughts Glimpse

不负如来不负卿

He’s a mystery. He’s a lover, but his identity wouldn’t allow him to be with his lover. He’s a monk, but not just a regular monk. He’s the Sixth Dalai Lama of Tibetan Buddhism from three hundreds years ago. Cangyang Gyaco 仓央嘉措 left some of the most moveable love poetry from many years ago. It still touches

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Seeking Asian Female – An Unexpected Yellow Fever Documentary Film Seeking Asian Female – An Unexpected Yellow Fever Documentary Film

Seeking Asian Female is a yellow fever documentary film by Asian American. Steven is a twice divorced, 60-year-old Caucasian male lives in San Francisco. He started to looking for Asian female five years before he meet Sandy, a Chinese woman from Shenzhen, one of the biggest cities in China, who’s about half of his age, and never

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Around the Corner Around the Corner

Several years ago I joined a dating site. About a week later I deleted my account because there were too many messages and flirts to respond. I remember someone sent me a message after read my profile and said my profile was so sweet and pure. It makes every man who reads it would want

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You Got Mail – Dating a Blogger You Got Mail – Dating a Blogger

I have not post for a while now. In my post “You Got Mail” I told my visitors that I don’t feel like to post anymore for some reasons. There is other reason I didn’t mention because like I always said I didn’t have the intention to make this blog too personal. I want to

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You Got Mail… You Got Mail…

I woke up this morning with four different emails in my mail box…Well, more than four. There are only four I am going to list here: “I am sorry Jian, I will have to un friend you. My wife is a very jealous woman, And she is not happy that I made you a friend,

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35 Things I Love About Myself 35 Things I Love About Myself

Couple of weeks ago I received an email. “What do you like most about yourself?” Hmmm, It’s hard to just pick one. I know, it’s kind of shallow but it’s part of me anyway. “VERY” one of my friends often corrected me with an additional word every time when I admit I am shallow. “I

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Reasonable Wish – The Confusing about Being a Friend with Some Asian Women Reasonable Wish – The Confusing about Being a Friend with Some Asian Women

The expectations change while the closeness of the friendship changes. And it’s extremely difficult to maintain friendship or I would say so-called friendship with someone who expecting something more than just being friend, doesn’t matter how good that person’s intention maybe. Sometimes it’s confusing to Western men to guess what to expect from the Asian

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Surprised by the Unexpected and Disappointed by the Expected… Surprised by the Unexpected and Disappointed by the Expected…

Surprised by the unexpected and disappointed by the most expected…Once again I learned how wrong was my judgement on human being, people, on men. Often men/women in a relationship expect a lot more from someone we want to give to. It’s a burden; often people expert more from someone who owns more, but forgot maybe

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Interracial Dating Sites

20+ Interracial Dating Sites for Westerners Meet Asian Singles 20+ Interracial Dating Sites for Westerners Meet Asian Singles

“Where to meet Asian women who are seeking for marriage?” “How to dating Oriental girls?” It would be very difficult ten years ago. Now as the emergence of many Asian dating sites and relationship blogs, start an interracial relationship with Chinese girls and other Asian ladies becomes much easier. You don’t have to fly to

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Comments Response

The Trees By The Beach – Men From Ghetto & Women with Low Self-esteem

Have you every paid attention on the trees by the ocean? There are several different kind of trees grow up through the rough windy condition. Some bend, yet survival with an abnormal form. Some stay low to avoid the wind. Few grow to be useful piece of good wood. And the rest of the other

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General Cultural Difference

Illustrated The Eastern (China) – Western (Germany) Cultural Difference Illustrated The Eastern (China) – Western (Germany) Cultural Difference

This is actually one old post of mine from couple of years ago when I first started blogging. Since all the site images lost when I start to working on its redesign through the import and export process, I decide to repost this. It’s a quite impressive way to demonstrate the Asian western culture difference.

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Guest Posts/Opinions

A SECOND CHANCE (bridges, not barriers) A SECOND CHANCE (bridges, not barriers)

An old man sat by the river contemplating his life and what he had learned. He remembered his days as a child when playing with other children. He never asked where they were from or wondered why their skin color was different from his. He never thought about why some of his friends had different

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Interracial Dating Tips

How To Know If An Asian Woman is Not Into You – Asian Western Difference How To Know If An Asian Woman is Not Into You – Asian Western Difference

Since last week, I have been trying to install couple of new WordPress themes to my blog, but end up coming back with old one still. It doesn’t take much time to set up. The bad thing, I lost all the image files when I was doing the import and export. So I have to

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Polls & Discussion

You Got Mail – Dating a Blogger You Got Mail – Dating a Blogger

I have not post for a while now. In my post “You Got Mail” I told my visitors that I don’t feel like to post anymore for some reasons. There is other reason I didn’t mention because like I always said I didn’t have the intention to make this blog too personal. I want to

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Quotes

Think Positive Think Positive

If people are trying to bring you down. It only means that you are above them. Like people who smiles when it’s raining. Happiness is not a destination; it’s a way of life.

Sex Talk

Three Facts about Asian Women’s Sexuality Three Facts about Asian Women’s Sexuality

After read Guest Opinion By Dan “Discussing Sex with Your Asian Spouse” I thought I could add some facts about Asian women’s sexuality which I known of – the topic I have never touched in my pervious posts. I know that many people (westerner men) have the questions about Asian women’s sexuality, even though I

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Asian Festivals

Japanese Children’s Day ( Koinobori) 5th. May Japanese Children’s Day ( Koinobori) 5th. May

Children’s Day takes place on May 5 every year. It’s a national holiday in Japan. In this day, carp-shaped wind socks traditionally flown in Japan to celebrate Tango no Sekku (端午の節句?): Koinobori (Fish flag) meaning “carp streamer” in Japanese, in honor of sons and in the hope that they will grow up healthy and strong. Fish is

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A+ List

Gift Ideas – 9 Romantic & Love Symbols, Signs and Characters in Chinese Art and Calligraphy Gift Ideas – 9 Romantic & Love Symbols, Signs and Characters in Chinese Art and Calligraphy

Symbolism is an important part of Chinese culture. It serves to relay a message via a piece of art work, home furniture, dinning ware or even a robe. Double Happiness, YuanYang (Mandarin duck), BingDiLiang (Lotus),  Dragon with Phoenix, Magpies and Butterflies often appear in traditional Chinese art. Their images and icons are the symbols of love and romance. Gifts with

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Types of Asian Women

Type Two – Princess Jasmine – The Superior Chinese Women

The second type of Asian woman I am going to talk about is “Princess Jasmine” – the Superior Chinese Women. You often meet them in major cities in China such as Shanghai… I got the name “Superior Chinese Women” from an article I read recently.  ”Why Chinese Girlfriends Are Superior“. It’s wrote by Shanghai Shiok’s

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Types of Western Men

Kiss the Frog – How to Identify the Emotionally Immature Men

One of my girl friends told me that she will never date a western man who have never date any Asian woman again. It’s kind of like kiss the frog, who knows which one going to turn out to be a prince charming. It’s not her job to educated a man to be a man

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