Are you new to online dating and are looking for some online relationship advice?
Online dating can be very easy and very hard at the same time. But what you need as a woman, is to plot your own course in order to be successful. You need to figure out exactly what you want. For instance, you need to be very specific… say… “I am a white woman who wants Asian male“.
Online dating is quite different from offline dating. The competition is really stiff. The playground is quite big. So as opposed to meeting someone the traditional way, your options and possibilities are much higher. Now you need to set yourself for success. Every woman and man alike is there looking for love. So whatever you do, you need to aim at making yourself stand out.
You don’t need to feel lost. You just have to do it right. And I am going to tell you how…
Online relationship advice to apply
1. Choose a reputable dating site
Now, the best way to identify a good dating site is to look at the online reviews and the membership. But one other way to be sure is to look at the rate of success that the dating site by going through the testimonials given by former members.
2. Create a great profile
Your dating profile will be your selling point. So this has got to be captivating enough to grab attention.
First of all, you need to take a good photo of yourself and upload that to your profile. A face-less profile will definitely decrease your chances of someone hitting you up. It makes you come off as someone who is ashamed of dating online.
The other part of your profile is the “about you” section. Here, be very specific about what you are looking for. Avoid using words like “I don’t like women with drama”. Negativity keeps people away.
Remember to list some of your hobbies and likes as these will help pair you up with people that share similar interests.
3. Be proactive
The best online relationship advice I can give you is to take control of your own dating life and pace. Be the first to send that message. Do not just sit and wait for other members to approach you. Do your own searching. And when you find someone you like, send them a message. I prefer online chat as opposed to email as the response is instant.
Cindy gives advice for those who have just entered the world of online dating for the first time and how this differs from other forms of dating
4. Opt for paid membership
There are lots of sites that offer FREE membership. But if you want to enjoy any sites capabilities, then I would opt for premium membership. This will make it easier for you to take control and contact potential mates as opposed to waiting for the paid members to contact you.